E: Encourage: Your child probably wants to be on time to class, and he likely wants to get his homework and practicing done every week. At such a tender age, he cannot hold up these commitments without your encouragement. Show him that you want him to succeed by making homework a special time together, helping him remember to practice, and prompting to get shoes on with plenty of time to get to class.
T: Together: Eventually, you hope your child will rush to the piano every day because he finds joy in playing, practicing, and challenging himself. But this is all very new and he doesn't have a history of success and pleasure with piano yet. Right now, he practices because he trusts you and your judgement that this is a worthwhile effort. He's giving it a try because he wants to bond with you. So sit with him during the first few practices each week, snuggle with him during class, sing with him, play duets, and let him feel that playing piano is something that brings you closer together. This will have more impact on his future perceptions of music lessons than the teacher's explanation about roots of chords!
A: Applaud: Remember when your child took his first steps? You cheered and clapped! He's trying things now that are tricky and sometimes scary. He wants to know that you love him even when the notes he plays sound slow and sticky. So applaud the successes, and even more importantly, applaud the efforts! "I loved hearing you play just now, because I could tell that you were struggling but did not give up, and I appreciate that! Way to go!"
G: Giggle:
Children learn most effortlessly when things are fun and lighthearted
(admit it: we adults learn best when we're excited and finding fun,
too!). Seize the opportunities to giggle and make the arduous tasks
into silly games.
O: Overcome Hard Things: When your child is confronted with challenging assignments, be prepared to list the many difficult challenges he has overcome: learning to walk, learning to brush his own teeth, going to school alone, skipping, riding a bike, etc. "Now that these things are so easy for you, it's probably hard for you to remember that they used to be really tricky! Playing today's chords is really hard, but I know you can overcome hard things when you want to... let's keep working on it and in a few weeks this will be so easy you will feel so proud to have stuck with it!'
-Gina Weibel, M.S.
Let's Play Music Teacher
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